When we make daily decisions, we are unaware of the many times we question our selflessness. While when explained and asked for, it seems easy to act out without a selfish thought in your mind. While the ability to be selfless is extremely powerful, to be able to have that power is close to impossible for some.
Many of us like to claim ourselves as unselfish, while many of our actions are unknowingly very selfish. It is no shame when acting selfishly, because sometimes it is necessary to take care of yourself. Selflessness just leaves us questioning ourselves and nearly everyone else’s actions.
I believe the idea of being selfless is more of a comfort than a truth. There is not a person that can admit to not having selfishly acted at least once in their life. In some cases, our selfishness is needed in order to protect ourselves. I do know there are select people who act without a selfish mind in thought, but it is nearly impossible to do that for everything in your life.
While the idea of being selfless should definitely be applauded, I think that so should some instances of selfishness. It is sometimes much harder to put yourself first, and many times people don't receive enough recognition for truly taking care of themselves. It is mentally and emotionally healthy to be selfish sometimes, but only if you are accepting of that selfishness. Trying to hide behind the act of being selfless, does nothing for those you are trying to help or your emotional growth.
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